"getting married" l say repeating after him
"Yes but trust me this is not something l want for myself. My father is forcing me to" he defends
"you are a grown man capable of making your own decisions. Surely you can't tell me that this is your father's doing" l say getting annoyed
" It's an arranged marriage" he deadpans
"arranged marriage in the 21st century" did he honestly think that he could make a fool out of me. Understandably, the actions l had taken during the course of our relationship were not in my favour but this was the moment l drew the line
"My grandfather entered into an agreement with.... I don't have to explain myself to you. I never lie to you about my affairs. Why should l start now, all in the name of not hurting your feelings. Give me more credit than that" and he hit the nail to the coffin. He did have a point and l didn't see the use of arguing any further with him about the situation
