(Mint POV)
"Everybody's gonna love somebody,
We exchange hеarts easily, with eagerness.
Why is it still difficult for me?
I'm still stepping backwards.
Every day, I wanna love somebody
And it's okay to be a little bit selfish
I want to give you my heart
Without hesitation someday"
some good lyrics by the 4th gen k-pop idols Itzy. yes, I can understand what that means, someday or for a moment everyone has followed these lyrical lines. are just simple, straightforward if you ever try to fit someone's feelings into words. hesitation occurs especially when you knew things might be different after you let out all, stepping back is common when you think once you were friends with someone and now you might have a different opinion about your feeling towards them, with just some so-called simple words can make or break or in simple words end or begin with just a yes or a no. it's natural to be quite jealous and selfish when you see that person with someone else. you, I and we can understand these so-called complicated feelings called "LOVE"
even though we haven't confessed and let our hearts in the closet, we always wanted that someday our feelings might reach that person and our feelings can be accepted by the other. We keep imagining the future possibility that might come next stepwise and willingly wish other things coming naturally. if it might come negative then there's nothing ahead, but, if there is a little bit of chance of positivity outcome like if we confess our love we might get accepted, then what future possibility may come?
1-acceptance?
that is step 1 of the future which we have planned.
other planning steps follow as well.
2-dating comes next.
on which we might have the aim to know about each other more, likes dislikes, opinions as a partner not as a friend. take care of each other more, cross the boundary of friendship. and expressing our feelings what we precisely have for the other. views may have changed at that stage what we have when we were friends and what we have as partners. we do everything that may be better for the other, priority shifts. we provided good elements to the other before ourselves.
express ourselves in a way that will not hurt the other, hide our problems and struggle to make sure the other will not worry about our mess. getting stressed about our future and many more.
3-eating together and spending time more and more.
when it comes to dating we visit restaurants more often than we were friends and food comes naturally visiting various places and having fun with satisfaction.
4-your first kiss
the memorising sensation once comes in a lifetime. maximum of us want to experience that one spark feeling. well, when it happens..... kinda not explainable by me, when it happens you will or for sure.
5-sex and
more sex
connect this Time physically connection is more important. the more you contact each other physically the more you better understand each other, more accept each other.
6-then introduced to parents and then a family gathering.
it was kind of a messy thing I guess. what will happen when you let your lover meet your parents for the first time, it depends on the parents and the child itself. communication is here important agenda if you deliver a significant diagram of your relationship and if they are respectable about your choices and were convinced there is no need to worry they approve easily. otherwise it's a mess.
7- if everything up to here is fine then comes marriage.
the official union between two souls. creating a new path of life for your own family.
8-children
their education
the greatest thing for a sustainable parent is to become a caregiver of someone they love the most, their children.
having children and providing every comfort thing.
provide every requirement they need. children grew faster as time passes it's the sole duty of the parents the children grew up in a warm and healthy environment so they can grow up into happy and confident young adults.
getting old while taking care of each other comes naturally. children find themselves their other half, as well as their achievements and a. future with great possibility.
they find someone, the date and their marriage and the new start of their life. and this way "life goes on."
these future possibilities will await ahead if everything goes favourable. so make sure not to give up on love and life. just make sure you archive everything rightfully you desire and be happy.
ah!
I
just went overboard.
so we now were at our campsite. we need to start work soon, otherwise, we will be late to set up our camp. so I asked my friend to divide our duty and be quick.