There aren't that many abilities in this world and they are simple divided into the categories :
Life
Death
Special
There are of course the four elements
Water=Life
Air=Life
Earth=Life
Fire=Death
Then there are
Lightning=Death
Blood=Death
Reverse=Life
Live control=Life
Light=Death
Darkness=Death
Wihle the Live abilities are able to heal all kinds of problems and are also able to fix many things. Are the Death abilities only able to kill people and destroy things which has the result that Death ability user are warriors and Live ability user are healers and supporters.
And then there are the Special abilities wich are only available for people that reached queen or king status.
Special abilities are:
Time
Void
Creation
For these special abilities it is rather hard to say if they are destructive or life giving only that they are the most overwhelming of all abilities.