okay Mrs. Harris seeing as you've made it clear what type of man your husband is. I'm going to work in secret he's probably already panicking trying to move money and everything because he doesn't know why you have changed. how so? before we even file papers for divorce it's just like a regular investigation. going to call Anita she's private investigated that we work with. she'll get a job at your husband job and hopefully get as close as she can. and if we're lucky she should be able to get a lot of evidence. she's good at her job she's discreet nobody will ever know. whatever reason your there you could walk right past her and never even know that she wasn't just a regular employee. we'll give her some time and remember don't get impatient. and the key is to go along with your day today like Hawaii never happen I know it's going to be hard. but if you want me to be able to keep my part of the deal you got to do your part too. imma do everything for free and they will charge your husband for all my legal fees and expensive. no worries the reason why I'm taking all the time to do it carefully and cross every t and Dot every I. is so when he decides to take us to court will be ready. wait that's it? yes for the time being but wait one second. why are you giving me a phone ? this is the only way you contact me. as you see I have the other one we will only contact each other from these Burner. I want you to understand me do not call anybody else or text email anybody besides me from this phone. keep it with you at all times keep it on vibrate or silent. do you understand me? yes Nigel I understand you. and I'm guessing this is a make sure we can't be tracked and no surprise? yes never what kind of lawyer you thought I was in the beginning of us talking today? yeah Nigel I owe you an apology for that. no you don't your 100% right and probably 97% of lawyers are like what you described. never be sorry for putting your best interest and family first. just follow the rules and I guarantee he won't see us coming. do your best not to change how you act towards him. do you know how hard that's going to be? I can imagine but I know you can do it cuz my mother did it. it took her 5 years and you're going to have to have the same talk with all your kids. when that time comes to let them know their part so you guys can continue to live comfortably and happy. I know we did so I'm telling you from experience that it works. you can't understand it or blame yourself for the fact that your husband decided to cheat. you just have to sit up here and move forward and don't look back. have a great day be in touch soon.