"I was as impulsive as you are, taking decisions in a haste and making things worse. But what I didn't understand at that time was, I was at a position where my single decision can either make or break someone's life.
One day, grandma asked me to have tea with her in the middle of night, same like we are right now...
She said, Qing Shan, whenever, there will be a decision which will be important, or which will involve any other person except yourself, or which might affect someone else, or which you are not sure about, think about it over a cup of tea below the moon.
At that time, I did not understand what difference it will make, but as I started doing that I realised my decisions have gotten better and have been the best choices that can be made."
Looking at the moon who was blessing everyone with its beautiful light, Zhi Ruo said
