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Emotional intelligence, what constitutes high or low?
First observe, then think, and finally speak words that fit the situation and the other person's values; this is considered normal EQ.
Above this base level, the ability to appropriately add creativity, playfulness, humor, and other elements that make the other party comfortable and arouse their expectation is considered high.
Below this level, not observing, not thinking, blurting out whatever feels good, or remaining silent with nothing more to contribute than an 'uh-huh,' is considered low.
And Li Zheng's EQ would jump backwards and fluctuate, with nine parts deep and one part shallow, which actually only relates to the person he's communicating with and the context.
For example, most people, when with family or very close friends, usually won't bother with all that observing and thinking to please the other person—they just say what they have to say.
