Rather than ruining other person's life just to get rid of and your once love then it will be disaster in three lives and I am not very much interested in doing so also I don't know about other person but as much as I know about you, assume maybe you also married someone else then also same thing will happen what I said above because every person always crave for something more that is forbidden that is human nature also they want to feed their ego
We both are same type of people, once we made mistake we will never do the same mistake again and after the marriage which also can be considered first half as loveless then with love but lack of trust and believe also impulse decisions which almost ruined many life known or unknown and also at that time marriage was also big mistake which we did in impulse or because we were forced to the corner