That was how Zhong Nuannuan was—you prayed that you never provoked her. If you did, she would overpower you in every way, from status, aura, words, and finally, force. She was the type of person who would never let you go until you died.
Look at Luo Mengying and how powerful she was. Yet, she failed to survive a direct confrontation with Zhong Nuannuan.
We also have Yang Min. She was obviously stronger than Luo Mengying, but now, she had been manipulated into a complete idiot.
Anyone who made Zhong Nuannuan their enemy and was the kind that would only stop when one of them was dead would eventually become tragic figures of epic levels.