my dad call me one day and said that his father found him I did not know what he was talking about he started to explain to me how he came to know about his father, he said my mom told me that my father was a white man who came to Africa for a convention and she was apart of that convention it was where they meet and started getting to know each other she like my father from the day she meet him but thought he wouldn't like her, but she did not know my father fell in love from the moment he saw her, one day he invited to out it was when he told her that he like her and she too has already fall in love with him had no choice but to agree to the confession she told him she liked him too, they started dating and they found out they wanted to be together forever so he asked her to marry him and she agree but her family said the guy was white it wasn't his land and that he would leave one day never come back . after that was said he promise her parents that he would stay with their daughter and they trusted him and agree they plan the wedding but some days before the wedding he got a call that his father was sick back in the states he told his wife and er family what has happen and he needed to rush back to the states to see his father his wife agree and he told her he be back to marry her when the his dad got well she trusted him and he left for the states. the first two weeks past and she did not get any letter from her husband she sent him some letter but did not get any reply she started to get worry a month went by still nothing her family started to mocker and said that they told her he would leave she did not listen and agree to marry him, the mocking was worsen she decided to leave her family house and live on her own, after all this happen it was getting close to a year that she hasn't talk to her husband she left the house and left for another town after a week of living in a strange place she found out that she was pregnant with a child who father was not around she thought about aborting the pregnancy but she wouldn't bring herself to do it she stay with her child and started to think how she was going to rise her baby and she started to brush other people farm for money it was how she got by with this new life she started. she give birth to a boy child and was very thankful even when she did not know how they were to survive. four year went by her boy was three they were still striving to get by luckily she found someone who want to marry her and decided to let go of her past and agree to marry the man so she and her son can have Someone to take Care of them, she got marry to the guy and that how she went on to survive in a strange land.