"I love him, and that's why I do this," she said.
"Love? Men all need their space. What you're doing isn't love, it's pushing him away! Have you ever considered that as a big man, being clung to like this, where does he put his face? Moreover, you're hysterical at every turn, who wouldn't be scared? We're not even married yet, and you're this controlling, what will it be like after getting married? Do you expect him to carry you around every minute of the day?" Gu Qiaomei was teaching her how to manipulate men, "With men, you must be like flying a kite; as long as you hold the string, let the kite fly however it will—it will eventually come home. A woman who makes constant scenes like you, even if you get married, cannot keep a man's heart. Once you can't keep his heart, just wait for a divorce," she instructed.
"He wouldn't dare!"
