Chapter 1480: people will laugh at you.
"it's good that you understand. look at how many rich and famous people have married women without any romantic experience? actually, the most important thing about the other half of life is personality and character. otherwise, even if the other half is the first time, if your personality doesn't match, and the other party's character is bad, the marriage will definitely fail. look at auntie, she only had one previous relationship, but she kept her maiden status and married your uncle fang..."
Shi cai ning sighed softly. "look at mom's cousin. she's still not completely married to a businessman, but the two of them are quarrelling once every two days and quarreling once every three days. aren't they still divorced? only those who have been married before understand that it doesn't matter if it's the first time or not. what matters is the character. as long as that person isn't promiscuous, it's fine. ling ze's character... even though he's a little stubborn, whether or not the two of you can get along will depend on it in the future."
Suitably bit her lip, "mom, are you saying... that ling ze's personality isn't too good?"
"he did give people the impression that he was really like this before. he was noble, a little selfish, and arrogant, but people would definitely have their flaws. only when the two of you have gotten along with each other would you know if everyone is suitable for each other. if you quarrel every day and develop to the point that two people hate each other, then between the two of you... it would be impossible to maintain the relationship."
In the past dozen years or so, shi cai ning had also been a psychologist for many celebrities and celebrities, and she had gained personal insights into marriage and relationships.
She only wanted to pass on her accumulated experience to her daughter, hoping that her life, relationships, and career would go smoothly.
At the very least, she would not be like her, who had gone through countless hardships before being able to be together with gu kuangen.
"mom! you're so amazing! what you said is really true. i found out that quite a few female stars have married into wealthy families, and they are all living well. usually, those female stars also have very high eq and good personalities." xiang yi thought of some female stars in the country and could not help but sigh.
Shi cai ning nodded in satisfaction. "you're right. eq is also an important aspect. a woman's eq is high. even if she marries someone with a bad personality, the two of them can still get along harmoniously because of the woman's tolerance and proper handling."
"some girls who have been in a relationship for too long will know how to keep a man, but they won't make the other party hate them. in terms of eq, we still need to do more research to improve it." shi cai ning looked at the street lamp outside. "to improve eq, no matter who you are with, you can get along happily. but people with a bad personality will find it harder to control their emotions, and their eq will also be relatively lowered."
Xiang yi had already turned on the recording on her phone. this night was the longest night she and shi caining had ever spent discussing their relationship.
After shi caining left xiang yi's room, it was already 10: 30 pm.
Xiang yi realized that while she was talking to her mother, someone had sent her a wechat message.
"are you asleep?"
The person who sent the message was actually shi liangsen.
Xiang yi frowned, not wanting to reply him.
"i accidentally heard that bai lingze confessed to you? xiang yi, he's your cousin. if the two of you were really together, people would laugh at you."
Xiangyi was shocked. shi liangsen was really amazing. bai lingze had only confessed his love in the afternoon, but he found out about it so quickly?
"thank you for your concern. i know how to handle it," xiangyi replied indifferently.
"although you two aren't related by blood, but... the law still has a connection. his mother is your grandfather's adopted daughter. if the two of you were really together, it would be chaos!"
Xiangyi looked at the two words `chaos' and couldn't help but feel angry.