Marriage ? What is marriage ? Why is it required ? Is it so necessary to be married. Well I am not sure of these questions.. I don't even know how to answer them but I am sure that you need to wait for a right person and then decide. It's a life time commitment and so on ... but when are you ready for it? Who's gonna tell you that ? Of course the society duh .. Yes "THE SOCIETY" they know the right age of you getting married. Once you reach the ideal age.. May be 21 or less than that or May be adolescence .. Well it's their version to decide and our parents need to agreee due to SOCIETY'S pressure. And you're pressurised by the SOCIETY once u turn 25.
25 is end of world.. if you don't get married then probably you've done something which is really wrong.. like had a casual sex or sex with bf and blah blah..
Well.. No one.. No one pressurises you to get married.. neither your parents nor the SOCIETY.. It's your decision and it shall remain yours. We live in such a society where marriage is everything and having kids is an achievement and then getting them married.. that's what is happening and it'll continue until someone breaks it. I don't understand why is it so important to get married ? Being single won't help? Having sex with your bf or casual sex is illegal ? Why can't a person stay in live in. Why can't he or she have their own lives? Why we need to get married ? Just to have a label .. so that you can legally produce babies ?? I just wanna say that marriage is not everything. You're adult enough to decide and wise enough to do the right thing. I am not against marriage. I am against the concept of arrange marriage and if you wanna have an arrange marriage then you need to atleast know the person.. not blindly marry the guy. Too much of gyan over here.
I just wanna say.. "Marry when you're ready."