First of all we should talk about success. what is success? according to my sight success is not a hard goal of the life which we want to gain. many little promises which we make to ourself and complete it whatever it is, if we complete that, that give us satisfaction, which is actually mean of success.

For example I want to quit smoking but I can't because my mind is set that from tomorrow I will start this mission. One day I had decided to smoke only 5 cigarettes in a day before it I used to buy a packet of cigarettes which contain 10 cigarettes. So I had brought only one cigarette and smoke it, whenever I feel that I want to smoke, I smoke but in criteria that only 5 in a day. Finally I had completed my promise but still one cigarette is remain so I smoke that also. Slowly slowly was starting to give task to myself like 4 cigarettes in a day , after few days 3 cigarettes and so on.

Finally I realised that it is just a mentality that I can't quit smoking. Small promises, little task can take us to our goal. A body builder doesn't start with 100 push-ups, but day by day he gives himself task and reah to 100 push-ups from zero .

So if you want to achieve that hardest goal in your life you have to start with a little step, small promise or tast which you can complete.