"He doesn't love you, I mean come on he still bears that ridiculous nickname his late wife gave him and you even call him by that too. Well.. we all do and he loves it. I won't even be surprised if he has totally forgotten his real name. He loved her, he still loves her ..please Jandi let him go, you deserve so much better than him." I said while still holding her hands. I know how hard this is for her so am not going to let go.