Sophia looked at Jeff and JoAnna and shook her head. Considering their personalities, it's no wonder that they reached here.
Sophia spoke to JoAnna: "Anna, if you want your marriage with Jeff to work, you need to talk. Pick one thing, a big one, and work from there. See if you can come up with a solution on how to fix it. In my opinion, you made a mistake by waiting this long so that you don't know where to start. And both of you made a mistake by thinking that just being together and loving each other is enough. I noticed that the two of you are burying your problems under other things, instead of solving them. That can provide a short-term fix, but it is not enough to compensate for the fact that the two of you don't know how to compromise. It is all or nothing."