She once asked her Sensei, "What happens beyond comfort?"
He answered her, "Life happens."
"What if life made me weak?" She asked back then.
The reply came, "You can only seize the miracles of life when you're pushed to the edge of being weak and you have no other choice left but to fight with all you've left."
"What if we are so weak that nothing is left to fight with?" She questioned again.
"Then believe. Believe that there is someone, somewhere in this world who wants you to survive. Survive for that person and life will change its meaning for you." She was answered.
There is always that one person who has the ability to pull you out of your comfort zone. Not being vulnerable was Xu Mey's comfort zone. She didn't want to show her naked soul to anyone. She always had that looming fear that once she bared her soul to someone, that person will destroy her.