They started from a small walk.
It was really pleasant and peaceful. The morning was refreshing beyond imagination.
A cool breeze was running across my face that took away my sleepiness, the soothing sound of the birds calmed me and the greetings from the fellow walkers made me feel wonderful.
I never let Little bun's hand. The Kim villa was away from the busy and crowded streets so it was quite safer in the road. But I am afraid he might get hurt.
Various thoughts started entering my mind what if he get kidnapped like the first time when we met. It's really unsafe to let him go alone.
As I look man beside me, Somehow my nerves got calm. I know he's good father and he will protect Little bun.
"Mr. Kim! Thank you." I don't know why but I really want to thank him. Maybe I'm thankful that he come with us as protection.
"um....." He hummed. I guess he knew my intentions and reasons for thanking.
"Baby, Are you enjoying? It's cool, Isn't it?" I asked Little bun.
He nod his small head.
When we came back home after a fifteen minutes walk, I was feeling happy. Little bun looked quite different. I knew it was to early to say anything still... He looked like he enjoyed it.
I have seen so many benefits of this exercise in just one day. I plan to make it a part of our life.
Little bun was quite child. He rarely speak and never behave like little child should do. It's not like he is sick but he's inactive.
I can't let him go on like this.
"Baby let's do more exciting things, Like playing with ball, Dancing, Karate and many more.I will also ask some of my friends to teach us exciting things. We can learn from them, okay?"
I look at him... Hoping that he will agree. I want to hire some teachers so he can learn basic skills. I am afraid that if I said him directly he would run away.
I know what I will get if I force him or angry with him. I have to be careful.
Soojin wasn't pro in childcare. Little bun was the first child she looked after. She knew that she need some advice.
Late in yesterday's night, She was thinking whom to call. Soojin couldn't call her family members cause she was angry.
Other She can't disturb them late in night.
Then Soojin casually search in the internet.
Q-1 How to make children exercise?
- - Things start to pop up. Many of them were useless and some were good and useful. Among them one caught her eyes.
10 tips to get kids to exercise
1.Be a role model. Your children watch and mimic your habits, good and bad. If your kids see you being physically active then they will try to copy you
2.Use exercise as transportation. Walk your kids to school, bike to visit friends or roller skate to the park.
3.Involve the whole family. Invite everyone to participate in activities.
4.Focus on fun. Kids like to have fun, so they're more likely to keep exercising if they're doing an activity they enjoy.
5.Make activity social. Invite your kids' friends to join the activity.
6.Use competition as a motivator. Make it a contest between you and the kids to see who can run faster, or do more push-ups or jumping jacks. Give the winner a prize.
7.Include kids in household activities. Many household chores, like washing the dog or the car, or mowing the lawn.
8.Give gifts that promote physical activity. Rollerblades, bicycles, ice skates, soccer balls
9.Limit TV and computer time. Offer them active options, like joining a local recreation center or after-school program.
10.Plan vacations with new ways to exercise. Plan your family vacation around an activity or two. Think hiking, off-road cycling, kayaking, camping or snorkeling.
~source - MD Anderson center.
As I look at these tips, I imagine things in my head. Like Advantages and disadvantages, Possible or impossible.
I know I have to try my best to make him healthy and I will do it as much as I can do. I will do everything I have to do. Like as tips1, 4,6,7,8 and 9 are possible to do.
It only involves me and Little bun so it's possible. As he don't go to the school and he rarely have talk to anybody. It was impossible to do 2 and 5
That's why I want him to go school and start to do things as normal kids do.He can make friends in school. He will eventually learn to be socialize.
I'm afraid that things might go wrong in the future. His I.Q might be affected. He's intelligent but the source are lesser. He has to learn perfectly and right education.
As for 3 and 10, I am not sure. Things between me and Kim hae Jin was little tricky and Kim hae Jin might not have time for this.
Eventually I want him to go school. Schooling always has been a great phase of time where we learn to be a good friend, students and good human.
I really wish if he rethink about going to school. I'm afraid that he might not be able to stand outside when time comes. People might say that he is only 5 years so no need to be hurry but I have to do it quickly.
After 2 years no... 20 months later, We (Soojin and Kim hae Jin) Are going to divorce. I never planned to be with someone like him. He wasn't my priority and I don't see any reason to be with him.
There was a past between us that cannot be tolerate or said freely. Things will be unwrap when time comes.